Friday, April 10, 2009


We have been in a frenzy.  For a good week after we got our court date.  I did nothing but bask in the excitement.  Then it hit me... being patient does not mean do nothing.  So we here is what we have been doing in no particular order :

1.  Celebrating with friends.  I have met some of the nicest, coolest, most interesting people through this process.  They are all so different from each other and yet are amazing.  I hope to be friends with theses people for a good long time.

2.  Watching and learning about how to care for B's hair.  

3.  Packing up Eliza's bedroom.  Eliza really wants to share with B.  We are going to try it out.  She is 14 and a pack rat, so there is much baby proofing to do.  She is boxing up everything that would take away from the quiet serenity of a "baby's room."  Have I said recently, that I love this kid.  I kept trying to talk her out of it.  She would have nothing to do with it.  I still am preparing for a room change after B gets home for a whole host of reasons.  (Jason ad I have a feeling that we will be sharing our room with her, anyways:)

4.  Painting Eliza's room.  We are having Eliza's room painted a more quiet color (that could work for a boy if we need to make a room change.)  I think I drive Jason crazy when I paint.  I am so impatient and put very little into prep work.  So we are hiring one of my (and my kids') favorite people.  When it is done...we will post before and after pictures.

5.  Picking up the crib from Jason's sister.  Trip to Connecticut... tomorrow.  

6.  Find a dresser and bookshelves for B.

7.  Shopping for clothes, diapers, other necessities.

8.  Learning Amharic.  I have hit a plateau.  I learned a few quickly and then it got harder and harder to add words to our repertoire.  Eliza is leading the pack in learning words. 

9.  Thinking and praying over B.  She has been captured in very few or no pictures (from other adopting parents) and we have had no updates.  We have found out from someone who was going to take pics of her...that they asked her not to too close to B because she is so wary of the experience.  We have heard she is extremely shy.  Eliza was very shy when she was little-hard to believe now- so we do have a little experience with it, but not when we will be her "stranger."  I have been thinking/praying on it... I will have to think on my feet, preparing for several different scenarios.  Any thoughts?  

10.  Sending out care packages for her with traveling parents:)

11.  Taking pictures.  Each time we send a package or letter we include a new picture.  I can't think of any other event in my life that I have been in so many pictures.

Some other things that we are doing:

12.  Sports have kicked into high gear.  Last weekend we had 3 soccer games, 5 lacrosse games, and riding.  I only have 3 kids right now!

13.  Studying for a&P2.  Got my first B on a quiz yesterday.  Obviously, I am distracted.

14.  Getting Andrew ready for his trip to the Dominican Republic with the doctors, Peace Corp, and Engineers without Borders.  As the trip draws closer, I am getting a little nervous.  He is only, 17.  The next youngest person, is 35.  Will he remember to not open his mouth in the shower?  Will he take his malaria pill?  and the list goes on....

15.  Working out.  I am still determined to get stronger.  It has been a long time since I have carried 20lb around all the time and I am older:)

16.  Enjoying the newness of Spring!  


Ellen said...

I loved this post - you are doing so much! Eliza sounds like a very special young lady. Zach does too for that matter. Take time to savor and enjoy and breathe. I will pray for your shy little one...this may be a very very good thing for attachment.


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Nicholas said...

The "shy", doesn't like to be photographed, comments were all we got. We NEED to talk before you leave.

It could be hell on wheels there, but rest in knowing that it all changes SO fast.

emily said...

Great recap! I was laughing with Abe's OT this morning that I paint that same way, take very little time to prep b/c I'm so ready for the change-- usually wish I had spent bit more on the prep. :)

Praying for Missy and her transition.

coffeemom said...

Is B around 20 lbs??? I have an idea..will email once I'm home...I will add zach's trip to my prayers, I"d be nervous too. But i'm not sure that ever changes no matter how old they get! My dad still worries about me, no matter whether I'm traveling overseas or in state.....
as for the amharic, oh, I"m w/ you, I feel your pain!!! Ack!
You'll do great tho....Love M

Lori S said...

It was good to catch up with you again! I have been distracted from blogging for a while! Glad to hear you are keeping busy and making progress in preparing for B!

Justine said...

Just catching up now! Yeah - a court date and so soon. Although, I am sure it feels like forever away. Very excited for you. The countdown begins!

Mom to many said...

Congratulations - a two year old! How fun. I just saw your comment on another blog and had to take a look. How exciting! I can't wait until you get her home.